Fear is a Liar
I prayed to the Lord, and he answered me. He freed me from all my fears.
– Psalm 34:4
While recently traveling with my husband and my two youngest sons I decided that it would be a great idea to play a song that I heard several people mention. Surely, it was something that I needed to listen to right that minute.
As a mom of all boys, I am always at the center of attention when it comes to sad, sappy movies or in this case, a song. During times such as these, all eyes are on me to see my reaction. Not only did I listen to the song surrounded by all of this testosterone, I decided it would be an even greater idea for the whole family to enjoy it too.
As the song began to play, I could feel my face flushing and I felt emotion welling up. There was no going back, if I turned it off they would know something going on because it was my idea but I was trying hard not to cry. As I sat there trying to compose myself and not bring attention to the emotional explosion that was about to take place, a tiny tear fell from my eye.
At this point, the car that had been full of chatter and excitement had become eerily silent. I thought to myself, surely the boys have gotten preoccupied so I will escape their ensuing ridicule and laughter at mom’s silliness. Oh, how wrong I was! As soon as I opened the glove compartment to pull from the overflowing stash of drive-thru napkins to wipe my eyes, I was busted.
My dear husband, the protector that he is, caught a glimpse of what was happening out of the corner of his eye. He stared straight ahead at the road with both hands placed firmly on the wheel trying his best not to draw attention to the waterfall about to take place. In that instant, over the music, I heard “Mom, are you crying?” and then another, “Really Mom, why are you crying, it’s just a song”. I raised my hand for them to give me a moment and quickly stopped the song. My family had a laugh but what they didn’t realize was the teachable moment that had just happened. This situation led to an entire conversation about marriage and how God places extra water in women sometimes so it just pours out faster. Oh how they love those conversations. This was sweet payback for them laughing at me. A conversation was sparked about fear and how crippling it can become to so many people.
We all have fears. We can have fears over things that may seem silly to others, such as spiders (not silly to me, by the way), lizards, crossing bridges, fear of the dark, etc. There are very serious, emotional fears such as worrying about sickness, loneliness, not measuring up and being enough, financial stability, on and on. So, how do we overcome those fears as believers in Christ?
We have been given an arsenal of weapons to fight against fear. Two of these weapons being the ability to speak life into our situation and take our thoughts captive. Proverbs 18:21 NKJV says, “death and life are in the power of the tongue and those who love it will eat its fruit”. One way to overcome fear is by the very words that we speak. Whatever the fear is, we have to see ourselves as God sees us and not as the fear that is disabling us at that very moment. Scripture teaches us that we are fearfully and wonderfully made! We can pray scriptures out loud over ourselves, such as Matthew 6:26 NIV which states, ”Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they?” 2 Corinthians 10:4-5 tells us that we aren’t fighting a physical battle but a spiritual one. We have to take those thoughts captive and replace them with thoughts of what God thinks of us.
We also have a weapon of praise. When we are struggling with fear, we have to think on the good and begin to praise Him for that. The enemy expects us to succumb to fear but when we lift our hands and our voices to God, it confuses the enemy. Deuteronomy 10:21 NIV says, “ He is the one you praise; he is your God, who performed for you those great and awesome wonders you saw with your own eyes.”
Another weapon is our faith. Hebrews 11:1 NKJV says, “Faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.” We have evidence that God is for us exemplified by our faith in Him as a loving, caring father. Paul states in 2 Timothy 1:7, that God did not give us the spirit of fear but of power, love and a sound mind. We have to have faith that God wants us to be victorious over every obstacle in our life.
We also have to set up stones of remembrance. In Joshua 4 we find the story of Joshua leading the Israelites over the Jordan River on their quest to the Promised Land. Their next stop would be Jericho but they had to make it across a raging river first. The Levites had to pick up the Ark of the Covenant and step into the water, when they did the waters parted and everyone walked across on dry land. God told Joshua to have a leader from each of the twelve tribes of Israel pick up a stone from the river bed to build a memorial of what God had done for them. We have to setup memorials to draw from when fear attacks.
In 2011, I had a skull based tumor removed. It was a very scary and a trying time for me and my family. My only symptom for several years were very scary, heavy nose bleeds. Now years later, when I have a regular nosebleed fear tries to return. I have to stop my thoughts and pull from the stones of remembrance that God had me lay down in 2011. I have to quote 2 Timothy 1:7 and then surround myself with worship music. I cannot allow thoughts such as those to plant themselves in my mind.
Back to the song and the setting that caused my demise. The song mentioned is titled “Fear is a Liar” by Zach Williams. There is truth in the title of the song because fear comes from Satan who is the father of all lies according to John 8:44. There is no truth in Satan. How wonderful is it that we have a Father that cares about our fears, our worries and anxieties! Our heavenly father will always be truthful to tell us how precious we are to Him. When fear comes against you turn up the praise music, take your thoughts captive and think about your stones of remembrance.
Amy Bryant serves alongside her husband, Scott Bryant at Blakely Church of God. Together they are reaching rural Georgia in Early County. Amy grew up in a pastor’s home where both her dad and mom were ministers. She is thankful to carry on the legacy left behind to follow. Her passion is to see women live victorious, fruitful Christian lives free from their past. Through her own past struggles, she can share how to overcome what the enemy tried to use to destroy her. Amy is the mother of three boys, a grandmother to a beautiful one-year old granddaughter and a daughter in love. Her delight is to spend as much time as possible with them.